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Love is King

“Damn, that’s gonna suck for the next guy who really does just need to know where the nearest pet store is.” It will take several years for that line to get played out. By then you will have thought of something else. Satanova77 on September 25, 2011 6:44 pm Very Trill….. …VK your posts here have helped me out…thanks…and i have had a good time whenever i am in DC owing to the market intelligence i pick up on your blog…one suggestion…come onto Roosh forum! Gmac on September 30, 2011 3:19 pm Hahahahaha, I can see this ENTIRE conversation going down with her verbatim. Too funny, too true. When you’re running real game, she should never know it. Lisa on October 7, 2011 3:42 pm Newsflash shorty, it’s not what they say, it’s what they do. Women put a lot of stock in words, and dudes can use this to good advantage with not much actual effort, as you show here. But on the plus side for women, it takes out a lot of self-inflicted drama and guesswork to not make what a guy says any factor whatsoever in determining what he thinks of you. What he says, doesn’t say, hidden meanings, good intentions - fuck it all and just show up with an open mind where he tells you to, and if he listens to you and he remembers what you said the next time you see him, well, that’s a good start. And I don’t think a woman should ever judge a man for that gap between what he says and what he does. It’s always there, right from the beginning, in varying degrees whether it’s a guy who’s planning your extended backpacking trip together to Mexico on the first date but never calls you again after you sleep with him that night or he says he’ll be there at 5 and gets there at 5:04, and it’ll still be there when you’ve been together 20 years and he says he’ll make dinner and then picks up hamburgers on the way home. So don’t judge the gap, if only because it’s a fact of life dealing with men (people in general really but men aren’t as judgmental) and that act of judgement screws up a lot of good things and what could be good relationships. Sometimes you have to sacrifice a little resentment to the shitty guys in order to not play out that resentment on the good guys. I call it judicious naivety.

Online Dating

A lot of guys run game that is so obvious to any girl he’s talking to that… it’s game. In 2011 if you’re still reading women’s palms in public, you’re doing it wrong. If you’re asking obvious question openers like, “who do you think cheats more, men or women” you’re doing it wrong. And for the love of god if you’re still peacocking by wearing an eye patch, huge metal male sign necklace around your neck and a feather boa around your neck… fucking kill yourself. Some of you guys might as well wear t-shirts that spell out, “I’m a pick up artist and I learned all this from a book”. The world of game is that girls are also learning game, every move you read on Roissy, Roosh’s, or my blog is also being read by women so by the time you read it… it’s old. If you don’t focus on theory and roll up saying shit word for word you’re done. Truth is most girls now have a radar for guys spitting game and can tell it’s just game. If you’re attractive enough they’ll let you spit pretending you’re rocking their worlds with the game and hook up with you or be flattered by the attention then move on not taking anything you say seriously. That’s the advice I tried to give in this post there is no spoon… Here When you’re doing it right it’s not game, it doesn’t come of sounding corny or rehearsed. You sound genuine and different. There should be something about you to this girl that let’s her “think” maybe this guy doesn’t just want to pump and dump me. It’s funny to listen to girls talk like they know what game is. One of my shortys were talking to me on the phone. She’s a kid and swears she knows it all. She likes making fun of me and telling me I have no game whatsoever. That’s because I often play around and say obvious lines like, “awww baby, my life started when I met you”. I’m joking of course and making a point to be sarcastic. But this girl was really starting to believe that I didn’t know how to talk to girls therefore not seeing me as a sexual threat to hook up with other women. VK couldn’t have that going down. So one day on the phone after one of these similar conversation it went down like this. (watch for the neg) Her: you really need to hangout with my guy friends they can teach you how to game women. Me: Oh really because they have the perfect pick up lines? Her: Yeah exactly they know what to say to women. Me: But would you fall for their lines? Her: No I’d know they were just saying things to get me into bed I’m not like those other dumb girls their game works on. Me: Interesting, you think game is all about what’s said. How cute, when you get to my age you might figure out that game isn’t so much about what’s said but about creating a feeling of connection that leads to intimacy. For example how many guys do you bring up to your place on the first date. Her; nobody Me: Then what was it about me that you let come up on our first date (side not: that ended with me getting x rated freaky on another level) Her: well I thought you were cool and different. You didn’t try to use game and say things to impress me and get in my pants. For example I thought that it was really interesting that you liked art and you suggested that if we had another date we should go check out a few exhibits that you knew about. Most guys that look like you wouldn’t suggest something like that…. I wasn’t planning on even hooking up that night when you came up. I just felt a real connection with you. Me: ok, cool. Now since that first date how many art exhibits have I actually taken you to see? Her: (short silence) (I’m suspecting at this point she just realized that she let a strange man come up to her apartment and stick his dick between her boobs because he told her they should go see an art exhibit in the future)….. Are you saying you really had no intentions of doing half of the stuff you said and that you’ve said the same things to other girls on first dates….. do you even like art? Me: Baby I think the important lesson to learn from this is that the ones who are really good at game would never let you know it. Look at the time, Son’s of Anarchy is coming on…. gotta go! YOINK!